How to Rekindle the Trust, Physical Intimacy and Fun in Your Romantic Relationship, Without Having to Lose the Woman You Love, Disrupt Your Family’s Lives, or Spend Years in Couples Counselling!
(… even when she flat-out rejects your suggestions to seek expert help, you cannot talk about your relationship without arguing, or one or both of you have cheated!)
Do you sometimes wonder what happened to the sparkly woman you met all those years ago, who fancied the pants off you and thought your funny little habits were adorable?
Are you finding excuses to delay going home, because nowadays everything you do annoys her, so there’s always an atmosphere indoors and you feel like you’re walking on eggshells?
Has physical intimacy between you slowed or stopped, and you’re given the knock-back when you try to initiate, so her constant rejection is making you feel hurt, lonely and unloved?
You are not busy, your mind drifts, searching for ideas to feel better about yourself and your relationship.
You worry that the way you are together is how ‘normal’ couples behave after being together for years, but then you think, surely not?
You feel frustrated because your partner prioritises everyone… your kids, the dog, her family, your parents, her friends, her work, the TV, her phone, and herself before you get a look in.
Meeting your needs comes last, right at the bottom of the pecking order of importance for her.
She doesn’t seem happy with you these days, but you don’t know why.
“Does she even like me anymore?” is a question you regularly ask yourself.
You’ve got a job or business you enjoy; and your employers and clients think you’re a great guy.
Yet, when you go home, you put the key in the door, you’re wondering whether you’re in for another evening of rows about what you’ve done wrong in her eyes, today!
On the rare occasions you have physical intimacy, it seems perfunctory, like a chore she is ticking off her list to keep you sweet for a while.
More often, when you try to initiate, you’re told no.
She never wants physical intimacy anymore, but you need it.
You can’t even remember the last time she lovingly reached out to you in bed.
A quick kiss goodbye is about as close as you get to her these days.
In the quiet hours, you brood, so numb your feelings, you have drifted into habits that you fear aren’t healthy for you, but tell yourself you’ll stop soon:
Maybe it’s a few whiskies before bed, the cigarettes you gave up ages ago but have started smoking again, or the occasional joint or line that is making you feel happy, relaxed and calm.
Perhaps it’s filling your hours watching porn, dabbling with online gambling or gaming, or fantasizing about, or sexting with other women that makes you feel like a King.
Or are you comfort eating, raiding the fridge and bingeing on junk food to fill the void inside of you with carbs, and now your clothes are getting tighter?
Nothing works for more than a few hours though, does it?
You don’t really have anyone you can talk to about how you feel, either.
That means you keep your feelings inside, not wanting to confide in your friends in case they think you’re weak or a failure.
Besides, deep conversations aren’t really a thing for you and your mates. You tend to stick to the safe topics, music, movies, work, and sports.
If you confide in your parents, they might worry, take sides or interfere.
A few times, you have tried to talk to your partner about how unhappy you are, but she shuts you down with a retort about how much she has on her plate.
Before long, the conversation you hoped would help has turned into yet another argument that ends with her walking off, shouting, “You need to grow up or get out!”
But you don’t want to leave!
You want your relationship to go back to how it used to be, when she loved you as much as you loved her!
Do you remember those days…?
When you’d talk for hours, time would stand still, and then the next time you looked at your watch, hours had gone by.
You texted each other all the time with great messages, signing off with lots of kisses and loving emojis.
Neither of you could wait for the next time you saw each other, and when you were together, you couldn’t wipe the smiles off your faces.
She lit up every room she walked into, you loved showing her off, were proud to call her ‘your girl’ and couldn’t get enough of her smile and that twinkle in her eye that said, ‘I ‘m yours’,
Those long, loving, intimate kisses you shared at the end of every date night, and when you had to say goodbye, neither of you wanted to be the first to go.
When you made love your bodies fit together so perfectly, and you were hungry for each other, every time you had a spare few minutes.
It’s those memories of how you used to be as a couple, and hoping for the day you will return to feeling that same love for each other that keeps you hanging in there.
Right now, it seems like an impossible dream.
Where has your amazing relationship gone?
How do you fix it?
Who can you turn to?
That’s where we come in.
We are Tony and Nicki Vee…
Since 2003, we have helped literally thousands of men and women heal as a couple and rebuild lost love, trust, and passion so they enjoy the physical and emotional intimacy of an “Ultimate Intimate Relationship” together.
Jim, who, in tandem with his partner, was having major doubts about their upcoming wedding, which resulted in them falling out often and withdrawing from each other physically and emotionally.
After watching our training for two hours, their relationship had been rekindled and they were both excited for marriage. (They also invited us to their wedding to say thank you for getting them back on track.)
Chris, whose relationship was in such serious trouble, his wife had already moved out of their marital home.
Within days of going through our program, they both realised what they were doing that was not working and fixed it, resulting in his wife returning to the marriage and their home.
Several weeks later, having progressed through the program, they had also resolved other areas of conflict in their relationship, such as how they deal with money, parenting stepchildren, and communication with ex-partners, united as a couple.
And Craig, who reluctantly began working with us after his wife told him the alternative was he’d have to leave the house because she was at the end of her tether, and could not cope with him anymore.
Within a couple of months of going through our program, she no longer wanted him to leave, they were sleeping in the same bed, and had restarted their physical relationship.
The core of our program’s teaching is helping you realise the differences in how men and women are wired, accepting the roles you each play that contribute to the reality of your relationship, and reframing old patterns of thoughts, beliefs and behaviours that impact how you perceive and respond to your partner, then, gently reconnecting you back to each other.
Tony here… before you continue reading, I want to take a moment to talk with you, man to man.
First, I want to acknowledge you.
By opening and reading this page, you have done something that is difficult for us guys...
You've recognised you have a problem in your relationship and taken the first step to seeking the help of experts to fix those issues.
Now you have taken that initial step, this could be the day you look back on as being the turning point in your life as a couple…
… the moment you drew a line in the sand… quit lying to yourself that life at home is “ok”, and pacifying yourself with thoughts of, ‘What is the point in rocking the boat?’
I can answer that from personal experience.
The decision may be taken out of your hands.
That happened to me in my first marriage.
I was feeling all the hurt, rejection, and loneliness in my marriage that you are feeling now.
No physical intimacy, arguing all the time, home life was very unhappy.
Yet, I did nothing.
That is, nothing except… immerse myself in work all day, distract myself in the evenings with unhealthy habits, and avoid being at home as much as I could.
Until one day, we had booked time off work to go out somewhere together.
Instead, as soon as the kids had left for school, she turned to me and in an icy tone, said 'I don't want to be with you anymore’.
I was blindsided!
I tried to convince her we could fix what was wrong, but she was resolute.
Her mind was made up and there was nothing I could do or say now that would change her decision to leave me.
The day the divorce papers dropped through the letterbox; our joint bank accounts were frozen too.
I had no access to money, which nearly sank the business.
It felt like I was free-falling through an emotional, mental and financial nightmare, which ended up with me losing access to my kids and having to fork out £40k in legal costs.
If that happened to you, you’d wish you had done more when you had the chance, here today.
AND you don’t have to let it get as far as you being left heartbroken, with the deep visceral pain that comes from no longer seeing your kids – every day, or at all.
You can start resolving your relationship TODAY!
If you (on your own OR with your partner) are committed to healing your relationship from any level of disconnection, so together, you enjoy the “Ultimate Intimate Relationship” …
Then, we’d like to introduce you to our…
Ultimate Intimate Relationship Education RUBY Program
… self-study, on-demand training program specifically designed for couples wanting to reignite the love, joy, fun and intimacy in their romantic relationship!
In MASTERCLASSES 1 and 2, you will discover how to:
Get super clear on the root cause of the disconnection between you, so you know exactly what to do to start turning things around, quickly.
Uncover what’s really going on for your partner, so you start to meet their needs and wants, and they start to meet yours, resulting in you drawing closer together.
Speak in your partner's language, so you communicate without conflict, and you both feel heard, cared about, and understood.
After completing the two foundation classes you will:
Feel more connected with each other
Know exactly what needs to happen for you both to feel loved.
Realise how each of you needs to give and receive love in any moment.
MASTERCLASS 3: Your Dream Life Roadmap
Get clear on how each of you want your ultimate life to look, so your goals for your dream relationship and perfect partnership are aligned from the get-go.
MASTERCLASS 4. Conversing with Care
Gain a fresh new perspective on how to compassionately communicate with each other, so you stop your recurring pattern of arguing, and difficult topics get discussed without ending in a fight.
MASTERCLASS 5: Navigating Outside Influences
Set boundaries that stop your kids, parents, clients/employer and siblings from negatively impacting your relationship, and causing divisions between you and your partner, so you calmly and confidently unite as a team, no matter who else’s influences and dynamics you are challenged by.
MASTERCLASS 6: Finding Your Way Back from Infidelity
Move past the pain of infidelity after you, her, or both of you have been emotionally or physically unfaithful, so you heal the hurt, repair your trust in each other and get your relationship back on track again.
MASTERCLASS 7: Managing Money Problems Together
Establish a durable system for managing your shared and individual finances as a couple, so money discussions will no longer be a regular cause of conflict between you.
MASTERCLASS 8: Effective Environments
Short, simple, and fun changes you can make to what and where you live and eat together, so your home becomes a happier, healthier and harmonious place you’ll both want to hang out in together.
MASTERCLASS 9: Improving Intimacy Issues
Reconnect with your evolved masculinity and step fully into your role as “Her Hot Man” outside of the bedroom, so you become the guy she wants to enjoy more physical intimacy with.
MASTERCLASS 10: Ease Personality Clashes
Develop a deep understanding of each other’s personality style, so you put an end to nagging and criticism, and you both feel appreciated, valued and understood.
MASTERCLASS 11: Dealing With Past Emotional Events
Free yourselves from the constraints of immediate defensive responses triggered by the inner wounds, walls and barriers you built up for protection after experiencing dark moments in your past
MASTERCLASS 12: Living With Long-Term Love in Life
Integrating all the new strategies, habits, and beliefs into your mental toolbox, so you continue to bring the very best version of yourselves to your relationship practicing daily habits that will keep you connected, caring and loving towards each other, forever.
After completing Masterclasses 3-12, you will:
Have total clarity on your perfect life together and be moving towards it, in tandem.
Know how to navigate the daily realities of your home, money, kids and family life together, with your close, loving relationship at the heart.
Be on the journey of living a loving life together, no matter what bumps in the road you encounter, so you never have to go through the pain of going back to where you are right now.
Having completed the full Ultimate Intimate Relationship Education RUBY Program, you will have:
Raised your energy, both individually and collectively, so every day is filled with love, joy and happiness together.
Massively Increased your connection, respect, and trust in each other, so you experience the best of each other, consistently.
Amplified the impact of sharing your love with your partner, so they’ll feel loved and cared for in a way that automatically means they will want to regularly reciprocate.
If that’s not already exciting enough, there are THREE bonuses when you join the Ultimate Intimate Relationship Education RUBY Program today…
BONUS 1: Relationship Rehab Planner (VALUE: £50)
Your own ‘Relationship Rehab Calendar’, so you set aside time once or twice a week, blocking time out in your diaries to ‘attend’ the classes, showing her your commitment to repairing your relationship and that building your dream life together is a priority for you.
BONUS 2: Relationship Recovery Journal (VALUE: £50)
The ‘Relationship Journal’ has proven to be a real game changer for couples we work with.
The practice of journalling supports your mastery of powerful new behaviours, so your old negative and destructive patterns don’t get a chance to raise their ugly heads ever again.
BONUS 3: Our Recommended List of 12 Relationship Reparation Books and Films to Watch Together (VALUE: £50)
Our clients love our list of 12 books and 12 movies to read and watch together and say it’s like observing the lessons come alive. Aligned with the Masterclass topics, the books and movies on our list offer fresh approaches into the ‘Ultimate Intimate Relationship program’ and enable you to more deeply integrate the practices into your everyday lives.
We’ve given you a lot of information on this page, so let’s quickly recap…
When you join the Ultimate Intimate Relationship Education RUBY program today, you’ll receive:
12x on-demand video masterclasses, giving you the step-by-step framework to rediscover lost trust, emotional and physical intimacy and joy with your romantic partner, so you build your dream life and enjoy being one half of a couple experiencing their Ultimate Intimate Relationship,
3x bonus tools and resources that will support your learning and enable you to adopt the healthy love habits into your everyday lives, so you avoid your old negative and destructive patterns poisoning your relationship, ever again.
The benefit of Tony and Nicki’s 30+ years’ experience of guiding disconnected, warring and lonely couples to work their way back together and “Become an US” again, receiving more love, physical intimacy and trust.
Realistically, you have two choices now…
You could close this page, resign yourself to carrying on as you are - putting up with a life you dislike, disconnected from the woman you love, and both of you becoming more and more unhappy with every passing year!
Not only that…
What is the value of the 50% of your assets you’ll give away (not to mention the legal fees!) if you two end up divorcing because out of the blue, she made the decision to leave you instead?
What’s going to be the cost to your mental health if you fail to put your intimate relationship life back on track, and you continue to feel lonely, unloved and rejected?
What will it cost yours and your kids’ emotional health to live a life filled with pain, tension, and uncertainty?
And what could the potential; knock-on effects be to your physical health, if you don’t deal with all this inner pain and turmoil?
Or you can take the simple step of investing in the Ultimate Intimate Relationship Ruby Program today, so you begin working your way back together to build YOUR dream life… FAST!
Ask yourself this…?
…Are you committed to fixing your relationship once and for all, so you fall back in love with each other again?
… Do you want to rapidly recover your romance so that life becomes happy, healthy and fun again very soon?
… Would you love a relationship life that is calm and easy, low in friction and high in love, joy and connection, each and every day?
THIS IS A FINANCIALLY RISK-FREE INVESTMENT
100% RISK-FREE INVESTMENT
In the unlikely event you find within the next 14 days this program is not a great fit for your needs, you can request a full refund with zero penalty, and if you choose the instalment plan today, all future payments will be cancelled.
We can’t say fairer than that.
Ultimate Intimate Relationship Education RUBY Program
Jo (Luton UK)
WOW, spending time with Nicki and Tony has taken our relationship to a whole new level - I can’t recommend them highly enough. When my OH and I were not in the best place ( it was ok but just not amazing, if you know what I mean) we went to Tony and Nicki and now we are back in a fabulous space - like it was when we were first together 💕💕 Thank you both for helping us reconnect
We recognise that the worry of current world events can create a potential boiling pot for friction between couples when your relationship is already in turmoil.
That’s why, we are giving you INSTANT access to the FULL Ruby Program today, so you can rapidly begin healing your relationship, ready to deal with whatever challenges come your way - as a couple united in love…
- for a very reasonable investment.
We want experiencing the Ultimate Intimate Relationship to be accessible to every couple, regardless of their financial situation.
That’s why, we are also offering you the option to pay over 12 monthly instalments, making it even easier for you to say yes to repairing your relationship today
– with the price of each MONTH’S payment for the Ruby Program being LESS THAN HALF of the cost of a SINGLE HOUR with many Marriage Guidance Counsellors…
… who often require couples to attend years of weekly sessions with them before they reach the results our clients report after going through the first Masterclass in the Ruby Program!
However, this offer will not be available forever and the price will increase soon.
Ultimate Intimate Relationship Education RUBY Program
GET INSTANT ACCESS TO THE FULL RUBY PROGRAM NOW AND BEGIN BUILDING YOUR ULTIMATE INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP TOGETHER, TODAY!
WHAT OTHERS SAY ABOUT WORKING WITH TONY & NICKI
I’ve gained so much knowledge and understanding in just a few weeks of watching Tony and Nicki and their positivity and compassion is infectious. Their relationship education programme is really helping to transform all relationships in my life. They’re incredibly approachable, uplifting, non-judgemental and share their insight and wisdom, with such understanding and compassion. It is truly a pleasure to work with them both.
We are halfway through the course and our relationship is growing stronger and healthier each day. Be warned Tony and Nicki's couples programs come with some truly positive side effects such as better relationships with all my family, a way to communicate with grace and certainty with my ex-wife and my children seeing how a wonderful loving relationship looks and feels. At its core it teaches you how to work through all your relationship behaviours you have picked up throughout your life and change them.
I have had so many revelations working with Tony and Nicki. It has been amazing going through my own personal journey as well as the journey with my husband. We are communicating better, understanding each other more and allowing each other to truly be who we want to be!
Having only been working on the program for 1 month I can already start to see changes in our relationship and am really looking forward to continuing to work with Tony and Nicki going forward.
Tony & Nicki are experts at uncovering the real "root" issues between partners in a relationship. With their help my wife and I were able to discover the negative thoughts and behaviours that impacted our relationship. Being on Tony and Nicki program helped us identify and overcome these challenges.
Ultimate Intimate Relationship Education RUBY Program
Who is the Ruby Program most suitable for?
The Ruby Program is specifically designed for couples or individuals who have become slightly or seriously disconnected from their partner, and are out of ideas for how to fix their relationship problems so they reignite their love, joy, fun and intimacy, quickly.
The Ruby Program is excellent if you have previously been down the traditional Relationship Counselling route and its not worked out for you, or, if the idea of fixing your problems quickly and accelerating your recoupling is appealing to you.
Who is the Ruby Program NOT for?
The Ruby Program is not suited to couples or individuals seeking the typical type of Relationship Counselling, where you attend weekly sessions in person with a therapist, for an indeterminable number of months or years.
It's also not for people who will choose not to watch the Masterclasses, apply the learning, or practice the habits that will fix your relationship issues, preferring to continue making excuses and blaming your partner for the disconnection.
What’s covered in the Ruby Program?
There are 12 Masterclasses inside the Ruby Program: two in the Foundation modules and ten in the core program. In the Foundation classes, you will uncover the root causes of the disconnection between you, so very quickly both of you begin feeling heard, cared about, and understood.
During the ten core Masterclasses, you will be guided, step by step, through how to build your dream relationship together, including stepping fully into your role as co-creator of your perfect relationship, rekindling lost desire and intimacy, and navigating the day-to-day practicalities of money, kids, work and family as a rock-solid, and emotionally connected couple in love.
How is the Ruby Program delivered?
When you invest in the Ruby Program today and choose to pay in instalments or in full, you will instantly receive an email with your unique login details to access our training area.
How long will I have access to the Ruby Program content for?
There is no time limit on your access to the Ruby program content, so you’ll be able to go through the Masterclasses at your own pace, and as many times as you wish.
What if my partner flat-out refuses to engage with the Ruby Program?
If your partner is not yet ready to participate in the program, you will still see great results from completing the Masterclasses yourself.
In our experience, when even you alone fully immerse yourself in the program and begin learning new ways to engage with your partner, your relationship will improve, and everyone around you will benefit.
Not only that, once they start to see the subtle, positive changes in you and how you engage, their intrigue will likely be piqued, resulting in them wanting to get involved, without you having to ask. Win/win!
Does the Ruby Program include coaching with Tony and Nicki?
The Ruby program is a self-study course so there is no coaching included.
If you feel you would benefit from adding WhatsApp support or live Zoom coaching calls with Tony and Nicki, you will be offered a discounted opportunity to upgrade to our Sapphire or Emerald programs after you have purchased the Ruby program.
How much time will the Ruby Program take to complete?
One of the perks of investing in the Ruby Program is you can go through it in your own time and at a pace that works for you.
We recommend you schedule time in your diary to go through the Masterclasses, preferably together, although you can do it separately too.
The key to your success is to take this process step by step, without rushing. In our experience, you will achieve your best results when you complete no more than one training a week, and no fewer than one per month.
Each Masterclass is around the length of a movie, so some couples choose to arrange “Date Nights” to watch and discuss the training and go through and share and review the questions in the workbook. View time is only the first step. It’s vital you put what you learn into practice, and that will require more effort in the beginning until it becomes an ingrained habit.
There is a saying, 'knowledge alone is worthless'! Wisdom comes from combining the information you’ve learnt with action, enabling you to turn your unhealthy relationship into a flourishing and love-filled, bond.
Are we guaranteed to get results from the Ruby Program?
As your results are dependent on you completing the Masterclasses, taking daily action to practice your new skills, and making the necessary changes to how you perceive and communicate with your partner, we cannot guarantee results.
However, to make it easier for you to say yes today, we have added a money-back guarantee. In the unlikely event you realise within 14 days that
the Ruby Program is not the right fit to support you in fixing your relationship problems, we will give you a 100% refund.
Can we speak with your previous clients?
For confidentiality reasons, we cannot identify or introduce you to our clients, so we have added a few words from them here, sharing why they chose to work with us. Plus, you can read our Success Stories elsewhere on this page.
N and S: When N and S hired us, N felt frustrated because he was doing the best he could to make S happy, and S was annoyed, as she found N stubborn and difficult to deal with. Today, they believe their relationship would never have survived without our expertise.
R and E: R hated that he regularly thought about leaving his relationship E was very unhappy with her life. Today they know, how to stay in a good place with each other as much as they can, what to do if they fall out, and, have got their physical intimacy back on track.
N and G: N and G’s relationship had endured a lot when they came to us, including infidelity. They worked together to plan a future they could both get excited about, and today their marriage is strong, secure and love-filled, instead of becoming another divorce statistic.
What is the price of the Ruby Program?
You can purchase the Ruby program today and pay in 12 equal monthly instalments of £100, with the first payment due today.
OR, there is a half-price limited-time offer available on the pay-in-full price with a 50% discount at £500. (Offer Closes May 31st 2023)
When the offer expires, the pay-in-full price will increase to £1,000.
Do you offer a payment plan for the Ruby Program?
Yes. You can choose to pay in 12 equal monthly instalments of £100, with the first payment due today.
What is your refund policy for the Ruby Program?
In the unlikely event you find within the first 14 days this program is not a great fit for your needs, you can request a full refund, with zero penalty.
If you choose the instalment plan today, your initial payment would be refunded, and all future payments would be cancelled.
Is it possible to speak to someone if we have questions?
Yes. Send your best telephone number and availability by email to [email protected] and one of Tony and Nicki’s team will give you a call to answer your questions and reassure any concerns.