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Mike & Dee - Emerald Program - Back Together

Emerald Program Relationship Turn Around - Mike & Dee, Leeds UK

Mike & Dee live and work together pretty much 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. As it’s their own business they are the ones who have to step in if any of the staff are off. Lately, that’s happened a lot understandably and that has cost them dearly in terms of their connection and intimacy. Dee had packed her bags and gone to her mother's when Mike called us. 

Firstly Tony spoke to Mike as to how to reassure Dee that talking to us at the 1st session had no conditions attached. He was able to explain to her that it was just an opportunity for them to both share what had happened between them, in the strictest confidence, and for them to share how they felt about it and each other. Then, and only then, if she wanted to, would they discuss her moving back in. 

They both did amazingly in the session. Mike shared very emotionally however since his childhood he had felt angry with the world, and he knew how difficult that was for Dee and the staff in their business. He admitted to being the boss that everyone avoided in case he blew his top! He asked Tony lots of questions as to what help Tony could give him with this, as he wanted Dee to come back, and to stop the feelings inside of him. 

Tony assured Mike that the Emerald Program, with its 24/7 support and its private sessions, would help him and as she listened Dee seem to warm to the idea that this could work for them both. She agreed to do it with him. 

After the first Training, Mike wrote: 

 “We were so tired that we only managed half of the 1st part but even so it really hit a cord. I get now that I’ve never really liked myself, let alone loved. No wonder I’ve had 3 failed relationships and I do feel I will need to work hard on how I can do this - many thanks”

 And Dee wrote: 

“I was just doing this, as you know Tony & Nicki, to support Mike. Do you remember that Mike was rating our relationship at a 2, and I was on a 3. Well, amazingly this week we are both seeing it as a 5, so some improvement. We are feeling so much better about ourselves and each other, and our working together has improved vastly. As you say, you can’t unlearn what you learn here, and we are both committed to seeing this through now, thank you for helping us we are both grateful” 

A few weeks later Mike wrote: 

 “Even though we’ve had loads of staff off with Covid and Dee & I have worked 12 - 14 hour days, we’ve managed to have a couple of lunches out together and Friday we had our first day off for months. It was lovely, almost romantic!  As you said, ‘whatever happens outside the bedroom, will happen in the bedroom’ and so we’re starting to feel a lot closer too.  

At this point, on our next Live zoom session, you could literally see them moving closer together. Dee has moved back into their home and each time we speak to them their understanding of each other has grown.