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Ellen & Mark Cotswolds, UK
We were at very different points in our lives when Mark & I found Tony & Nicki on the internet. I, at 45, was disappointed to be in a relationship that I felt was going nowhere, Mark, who was a widower, and who lived 200 miles away from me with his two young daughters, seemed happy to just ‘date’.
Even just realising the things that we were doing that caused us to be distant with each other helped us to communicate better, and we quickly were able to talk openly about our relationship and discuss our needs and wants for the future.
We agree with Tony’s question, why don’t they teach this at school? If we hadn’t found this out we wouldn’t be together now and happy together as a family.
Jaap & Heidi Amsterdam, NL
We were so unhappy, in fact seriously so, to the point that, after only a year of marriage I was considering calling it a day. As I looked forward I could see no way I could take this for the rest of my life.
Immediately I read Tony & Nicki’s explanation of ‘what goes wrong’ I could see it so clearly. My wife’s mother had been very controlling and had become the dominant figure in their relationship. I could see I was following my Dad, who had always given in to my Mom.
So it wasn’t our fault, we were just doing what we saw as children, and that made it so much easier to talk about us. Literally an hour or so, and a few tears later, we knew we had ‘work to do’ but all the pain went away.
Debbie & Jack London, UK
We were both working full time in our own business, the financial pressures were immense and we were arguing all the time. A friend recommended we look into the work of Tony & Nicki Vee.
I wanted to leave and didn’t know how to tell him. I had thought about the likely effect on the children but couldn’t see another solution. I thought it was over until I read the 10 things that go wrong! We, or should I, was doing them all I think!
I decided to tell Jack the truth about what I knew I had done, and instead of throwing me out he said, fantastic. At that moment I decided I was willing to try just about anything to sort this out!