If you've ever argued with your partner, you know how destructive it can be to your relationship. 

If you think back to when you had your first argument, it's like a small gap opened up between you, and it can feel like something in the relationship just died.

Sadly most arguments are left unresolved by us sweeping the issue under the carpet. That's until that same issue finds its way back to the surface, and round and round we go saying the same, often hurtful things, again and again.

OR:

A compromise is reached where one or both partners can feel a part of their world has now become restricted or cut off.

Sadly both of these options have a long term adverse effect on the relationship, and over time the gap between you grows until, if you’re married, like 2,000 couples a week in the UK, you end up in the divorce court. If you’re not married, one of you leaves, and you both have to sort out the messy agreement of how to divide up your money, property and possessions.

So you are asking, what’s the solution? 

Well, THE GREAT NEWS IS, THERE IS A SOLUTION:

It’s 2 fold…

1. It’s understanding your part in the problem and 
2. It’s understanding your partner and their needs

Sounds simple, but believe me, it’s not easy. 

Because of these 3 Major Hurdles: 

1. Our Ego, which stops us from seeing our part in this, will run every part of our lives until we get it under control. The Ego’s job, which is actually to protect us from harm in an emergency, is not just working overtime, it’s protecting us from seeing the very thing that will heal our relationship - our own patterns of behaviour. 
2. Our Stubbornness to be right, or you could say our Dogged Determination ‘not to be wrong’ 
3. Our Unwillingness to learn about our partner, and specifically their gender. As we are not taught at school about Men & Women and their differences & needs, we grow up and enter intimate relationships blind. 
   
   

It's said that it can often be the 'Arguments That Kill Relationships'.

The challenge is that most couples repeatedly argue about the same things, often saying the same stuff, but louder and louder.

And worse still, arguments always spiral things between you downwards, often with more and more harsh and hurtful things said each time. 

So I have a question for you: 

What would you pay to stop having arguments, and have a 10 out of 10 Intimate Relationship? 

No, I’m not trying to sell you anything here, I’m just asking you this so that you think about how important it is for you, and so that you might decide to get some education on this subject.

One of our clients who has turned their 1 out of 10 relationship into an 8 out of 10, in under two months, just by getting educated, said what he’s learnt was 'priceless'. 

And, in a recent survey, the average relationship score saw 17% of people score their relationship at a 1 out of 10, with over 50% scoring 5/10 or under.

THIS IS WHAT WE CALL THE REAL PANDEMIC!

So you might ask - How could I get a piece of education that could help me today? 

Well, here’s a complimentary link to our Training -  “How to Stop Arguments Without Compromise” 

PLUS: Why not grab one of our Complimentary Relationship Books or Products in the Tony & Nicki Relationship Store on our Website, here's the link - Tony & Nicki's Relationship Book & Product Store

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PS - The fastest way to get help with your Intimate Relationship is to book a session, go to Tony & Nicki's Home Page and watch the short video on how it all works - www.tonyandnickivee.com 

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