I've always been a believer in the saying:

If you don't know where you are, you won't be able to get to where you want to go!

I remember doing some crazy training when I left school and joined the Metropolitan Police Force (don't ask; it's another story).

On Saturday they always set us a test, and one week, they took us to what seemed like the back of beyond way out off-road in the countryside.

They put us in small groups, gave us a map and a compass and told us we had two hours to get to our pick-up point X on the map, where someone would be waiting for us.

To add a degree of difficulty, they said if we were not there on time, they would not wait!

Our big challenge was we did not know where we were on the map, and without that, the map and compass were useless.

So we had to work out where we were!

I see this so much in relationships; it's a HUGE challenge!

I know myself when my relationship life was s***, metaphorically 'I, did not know which way to turn or where my X was on any map.

WHY?

Because I did not have a relationship map, let alone a relationship compass.

It was a super painful place to be, and I kept going around in circles feeling lost.

Slowly, things drifted into ever-worsening situations.

Knowing 'The Love Zones' would have changed everything for me, but the truth is they did not exist, and help was nowhere to be seen.

If any of this feels familiar, then I feel for you, I do, because when your relationship life is all over the place, nothing in life works as well as it could.

One of Nicki and my favourite sayings is:

"The Truth Will Set You Free"

And as long as you are 100% honest with yourself, utilising 'The Love Zones' is like having a 'Relationship Map & Compass'.

To get the most out of it, all you do is accurately come up with the number of where you want your relationship to be.

Then come up with the honest answer to which number best describes where your relationship is right now!

Knowing these two numbers is a 'Game Changer' because now you have  'Clarity', you have Power.

Yes, once you know where you are and where you want to get to, you can see 'THE GAP'.

Turning a relationship around can look a little bit like climbing a mountain, and the more significant the gap, the more it can look like climbing 'Mount Everest'.

So what do you need next, if you don't know the 'How' to climb your relationship mountain, is you need a guide.

Or if your challenge is looking like Mount Everest, you'll likely need a 'Sherpa', someone that can lighten the load because they know the way.

Here are three simple questions if you have a gap causing you relationship pain right now.

Could you ask for help?

Would you ask for help?

When will you ask for help?

And one final question which is probably the toughest;

What's going to happen if you don't get this sorted?

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