Traditional Counselling is based on regular 1-hour sessions, with many people going weekly for a session.

Our experience over the years has shown this strategy to have limited success, and here's why::

Different counsellors approach things differently, although you could define it as a talking therapy, where you say what you want in front of a third party while your partner listens. 

Many people use this to tell the other person what they are doing that they don't like, and the reality is, you will have undoubtedly done that many times over without success already.

Many then walk out with no resolution and no plan going forward, often feeling worse than when they went in, knowing the only thing they are going to do is go again in a week for a repeat performance. 

When working with the Vees, everything is different. 

Why? 

Because Tony & Nicki devised 'The V Relationship Strategy, this is the education none of us had at school or university on how to have a loving, intimate relationship.

It's a two-step formula where you learn about yourself and what you are bringing to the relationship that's not working. 

Then you learn about your partner, why they are like they are and how to understand them and live with them in a whole new way.

Everything you learn will be somewhat of a new learning because very few people have ever been exposed to this type of education before.

Secondly, once you join one of Tony & Nicki's programs, you are not in a once a week situation; no, you have access to both Tony & Nicki 24/7 to answer any questions to assist you with any situation.

The truth is you can start learning about Tony & Nicki's Relationship philosophy for as little as £10. There is even some free stuff in the Tony & Nicki store on this website to get you started.

Beyond this, there is a significant emergency tool in the store called 'The Love Letter' to assist you in getting back into connections with your partner quickly, which is a £50 investment.

There are also audio products, video products, coaching sessions, specialist therapy sessions, and a selection of three Relationship Programs to join, where you get to work personally with Tony & Nicki.

These programs are a significant investment in time and money, so they are not for everyone. However, you can get started for as little as £200 a month right through to multiple thousands for the face to face VIP 'Save Your Marriage In A Week' Diamond service.

The recommendation is that you book what we call the first session. This session lasts around an hour and costs just £75; please see the home page for more information and the booking link.

For Couples who are maybe struggling right now or whose relationship has lost its spark.

It’s for those who may have tried counselling or therapy, but nothing seems to be helping.

It’s for Men & Women who have become slightly or seriously disconnected, and want to reconnect but don't how.

It's for Men & Women who do not wish for their future, or the future of their children if they have them, to be in any way painful.

Yes, it has worked brilliantly for many men & women who are in a relationship, and whose partners are not quite ready to participate in a Program.

In those circumstances, the partner who is ready has fully immersed themselves in the program, (of course that includes hundreds of coaching questions!).

And as they have learnt how to approach their partner differently the relationship has begun to change, conversations have improved dramatically and everybody, including in some cases even the children, have benefited.